WHAT IF THE TOXIC PERSON IN THE RELATIONSHIP IS YOU! 😳🤯😱

WHAT IF THE TOXIC PERSON IN THE RELATIONSHIP IS YOU! 😳🤯😱 Happy Valentines! 😮‍💨🥀

What if continuing to use that word ‘toxic’ or insert negative word of choice, continues to pull up that timeline of what you don’t want instead of what you do? 

Relationships only become toxic when you’re dropping your own boundaries, going against your own values, staying in situations that you know are not good for you or what you really want, but are settling because you’re scared of being on your own or the fallout or insert your excuse why. 

When you raise the bar and stick to what is right for you - meaning, you live life within your values, what is important to you and not let the shiny object/person take you away from that - you won’t fall into or stay in ‘toxic’ relationships - because the only toxic thing is you not honouring what you feel inside of you. 

Relationships only become toxic because you didn’t trust your intuition - well, you did, but it was overridden by the great shiny promise or insert whatever other thing you trusted ‘out there’ over your deep internal barometer of truth inside yourself. 

Relationships become toxic because you’re dragging the same shit up over again instead of heaping out what no longer serves. Relationships are messy, chaotic, deeply unconscious at times and deeply purposeful in dredging the light up from the darkest places. 

If someone is in your energy field that you ‘know aren’t good for you or shouldn’t be there’ - do they want your light or do they want you? 

They can only ‘take your light’ if you are giving them permission to. 

Meaning - there is some pay off you are receiving too - there is something that is giving you comfort in this connection no matter how ‘wrong’ or ‘toxic’ it is… 

You can cut your cords, use my sponge clearing meditation, get them out of your aura and body - but if you’re not healing the reason ‘they are giving you comfort in the first place’ - then it won’t work, will just come back - you’re not actually wanting them to go. 

This.. becomes ‘toxic’ when you’re blaming them - instead of realising you have a part in this too. 

Changing your entire perception around this two way street of energy - will immediately shift the energy and when you heal your part - you usually won’t even have to cut cords or clear energy, because the ‘plug’ the ‘opening’ the ‘you giving them permission’ - doesn’t even exist anymore, because you healed it. You ‘closed off permission’ - by realising you were/have been calling it in and it can no longer suck you dry, drain your energy or feel depleted around certain people anymore - it is up to you - whether you are staying with them or not is irrelevant to this is a you boundary and energetic clean up and issue to resolve this. 

What if you’re the toxic person, simply because you’re not listening to your intuition about what you need to do NOW (the past is done with you can’t change it, but you can change now) and because you’re not acting on that intuitive guidance, aka your intuition - you are absorbing all the unfelt, unconscious ‘toxic’ emotions that are around you - simply because you are ‘not protected’ - BECAUSE your intuition is your protection and when you’re ignoring it, well, you’re also ignoring your protection. 

People ask me what is the most powerful form of Psychic Protection - and it is that - trusting your intuition and damn well following it! 

If it is leading you away from negative soul sucking dark wizardry situations - then, well, you need to listen! 

What if the toxic person is you because you are:

~ ignoring your intuition so blaming everything around you ‘why’ this is happening

~ you go against your own intuition/word so you attract others who also go against their own values/words and = big messy soup of unaligned people not doing anything in their life which they all sit and complain about what is wrong with the situation in the world, but not doing anything to change it

~ always get sick physically and think something is wrong with you - honey, yeah, you will because when you’re ignoring your spiritual intuition - it is giving you a mighty huge kick up the ass to pay attention and listening - you’re off path #abortmissionnow

There is a time and a season for everything. 

There is at time for knowing, being, experiencing the fact that what felt right at one point, doesn’t anymore. This isn’t about throwing the baby out with the bath water, but if you know deep in your heart you are only delaying the inevitable, yes, you’re going to feel triggered, upset, get physically sick, feel damn exhausted all the time and have incredible amounts of brain fog and I could go on and on and on. 

The most powerful and fastest way to heal anything - follow and act on your intuition. 

Trust it, implement it. 

Heal your shit so you can open your heart again and learn how to discern with your intuition rather than getting wrapped up in stuff that you know isn’t serving you and worse still, continue you on it when your Soul is screaming to get out. 

The only reason you become so damn toxic, negative and unhappy, lose your spark, your joy, your divine radiance that you once had - honey, they didn’t trap you - you put yourself in a self imposed prison, because you forgot your true nature of the divine magical being you are. You thought you were human, having to do human things. 

Whilst there is responsibility in this 3D realm - remembering that you came here following your Soul - is what also - ignites the radiance back in your heart and pulls you into alignment of your path. 

You’re not negative, depressed nancy… that is a symptom of your Soul being suffocated by you pushing her/him aside and thinking you have to do human monotonous life. 

You only become toxic, reactive to every little thing someone living their best life is doing (aka HAPPY from the inside out) - is because you have locked away that part of you that is wild and free and true… the part of you that shines from the inside out - the radiant being you truly are. 

Good news - YOU CAN GET IT BACK! 

And perhaps you don’t even need to ‘leave’… 

But you do need to leave the toxic drama that is killing your soul and implement what your intuition is guiding you to do. 

You’ve lost your joy, your passion, your charisma that you were born to be - that you used to be - before, well, human life happened. 

And yet… 

You have been longing, wild and free, deeply shaking the fucking bars on the cage screaming LET ME OUT!! Knowing that no one is there answering - so another coffee or 4 it is… because your Soul sinks back down waiting for you to realise you have had the key the entire, damn time. 

Yes there is energetic work, clearing, releasing and healing to do. 

Narc abuse ain’t nothing to shy away from.. but the only reason it impacted you so much is because you stayed longer than your intuition showed you the flags to leave. It’s okay honey, we can heal it. But you have to want to. 

Yes there is cleaning up to do. 

Yes there are changes that need to be made. 

Yes, you can do it and it more than likely won’t be easy to face - I know, because I’ve been through it. 

But I want you to know - this toxic reality you so see around you - is the lense you’re wearing that is smeared all over your face, because something deep inside of you is busting out leaving the entire rat race. 

You became so focused on only it, you forgot your divine inherent nature… the reason you were born and the reason you began in the first place. 

Life navigates us through tumultuous times to strengthen a weird your powerful sword - to fine tune your truth, your radar and your soul to sharpen your senses and acutely hone that powerful intuition that is still deep inside, that is busting through and won’t leave you alone because it knows what you’re here to do. It knows… the time has come. 

When you realise the toxicity is a big part of your past, when you realise the smear is the toxic mask you wear, breathing in the same shit, tuning your eyes on the same focus, tuning the radio to the same damn station - you’ve already begun to reclaim your power, stand in your light and say no once more, deeply demanding your soul settle the score. 

And not use that word anymore… 

Love, Hannah
The Life Purpose Queen 👑

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